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Wilson Christmas Letter 2021

Christmas 2021

Hidy Ho neighbors, friends and family!!  While you weren’t looking, the Wilson’s slipped another Christmas letter between your fence pickets!  Wow, another year is almost gone and what a year it has been!  Most of the time this past year, whenever I would turn on the news or any other form of media,  this is the emoji that best describes my reaction, followed immediately by ! The world has truly turned completely upside down and only God’s divine intervention can get us right side up again!

So what have the Wilson’s been up to this past year besides recovering from COVID?!  Well, Jenny and I took a spring vacation to North Myrtle Beach just to kick back for a low key, relaxed time.  We took a vacation to Ohio in June with Alison and Crystal, to visit with friends and family as well as to immerse Crystal more into the state that her mama, Gum Gum and Pops were born and raised in.  One of the highlights of that trip was going to the Amish country, staying in one of the quiet Amish villages of Kidron and listening to the clip clop of horse’s hooves!  Crystal really enjoyed the Amish farm we visited too!  In November, we also went as a family to the mountains around Blowing Rock for a few days to celebrate my birthday.  The rustic retreat was just what we needed until after the kids left, Jenny and I discovered we were still not alone; a flying squirrel (we’ll name him Rocky) found his way in and we subsequently hastened his departure back to the great outdoors!

Crystal enjoying the Amish country with a friend

Jenny’s health adventures continued into 2021.  Her ankle wasn’t healing, so we used a bone stimulator which eventually did the trick. About that time, Jenny got extreme pain in her lower back and we were told that she had broken a lower vertebrae, but there was nothing to be done about it!  And also about that same time, Jenny started getting heart palpitations, so we went to a cardiologist to have that checked out.  As a precaution, the cardiologist performed a cardiac cath procedure, stating that he didn’t expect anything out of the ordinary…yeah right.  Later on, the cardiologist comes in to explain that Jenny’s “widow maker” artery was 99% blocked so he had to insert a stent.  That secured Jenny for a funfilled spot in Cardiac Rehab for the next three months, three times a week!  Jenny continues to enjoy doing cross stitching which has been a real blessing; it’s the closest thing we can find to protect her without actually using bubble wrap!  Jenny is also lined up to get the prestigious award of being in the top 100 in her company for sales…again…for the third time in a row!

One of Jenny’s beautiful cross stitch projects

I’ve started doing stained glass again!  It really is a give and take hobby, as in if I’m not cutting glass, it’s cutting me!  I’ve gained more self confidence in the art of glass though and actually did a commission piece; my first, last and only commission piece!  All kidding aside, the art of stained glass has been feeding my creative juices again!

Stained glass project

Crystal will be seven in January and is now in first grade!  We really miss not having Crystal at our house this year for remote Wednesday, but she loves school, has a best friend Layla and is a great little reader!  Crystal was baptized in September and loves children’s church. Crystal is still in dance, but is now part of a Girl Scout troop as a daisy! Crystal continues to develop her vivid imagination, her knife sharp wit and her love for life!  Alison continues to be very successful in her role as a Kindergarten teacher and continues to shine as a leader in her school.  Justin is so very talented in his workshop, where he continues to develop his woodworking skills!

Crystal Nicole
Justin’s woodworking

 In October, we lost another bright beautiful light from our family.  My brother Tom’s wife, Jeanne passed, just a day shy of the fourth anniversary of Jennifer’s death.  The phrase “in law” had been edited out long ago, as we immediately and fully grafted Jeanne into our family, hearts and lives.  Jeanne could put a smile on anyone’s face and had such a pure heart.  I’m sure she’s in heaven right now, having a great conversation with mom, Fred and Jennifer!

Jeanne and Tom

As you can see from our life reflected above, our lives are probably not too different from your own.  We’ve faced our share of sickness, death and sadness, but we’ve also celebrated life’s small moments, those little nuggets of life that sustains us from day to day.  It’s the hope we have that things will get better, not unlike the hope that we have in the one whose birthday we are celebrating; Jesus!  So with that truth, please allow me to go as far as to say we might want to be singing these lyrics this Christmas season instead of carols;  My hope is built on nothing less than Jesus’ blood and righteousness, I dare not trust the sweetest frame, but wholly lean on Jesus’ name. On Christ the solid rock I stand; all other ground is sinking sand, all other ground is sinking sand.  For as we face the day to day struggles of economic instability, where the price on everything seems to be going up while morals continue on a downward spiral, where it seems that the only ones getting a pay increase anymore are those who refuse to even work; even in these times OR especially in these times, we need to be reminded that if you have the hope in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, we know that this is not our home…not really.  We just need to continue being workers for God’s kingdom that will still exist even after this one is no more.

A blessed Christmas season to you and yours! 

Steve and Jenny

Wilson Christmas 2020

A “Healthy” dose of Holiday greetings to you from Steve and Jenny!!

What can I say about 2020?  As little as possible would be my gut answer!  The world as we knew it has been totally turned upside down by everything from COVID-19 to the very corrupt and divisive national elections!  What should I expect from a year that began with a colonoscopy for me and a root canal/crown for Jenny?!  I mean, even our most basic needs have been interrupted by a toilet paper shortage!  (And no, disposable masks are not flushable…)  Jenny and I have either eaten in our car or outside on lawn chairs under the same shade tree so many times in the Hickory Courtyard By Marriott parking lot in lieu of inside seating, we should just go ahead and carve our names in the bark of the beautiful Live Oak tree and call it our own!  But I digress…

We had a great time on vacation at Surfside Beach South Carolina in

Crystal beach

June with Alison, Justin and Crystal.  Of course, we had to modify our plans to seek outdoor dining experiences and less frequented beaches due to COVID concerns, but we were able to really enjoy our time together.  One of the highlights of our vacation was going down to Charleston for a day trip, where we took a carriage ride around the city and scoped out some points of interest; definitely a place to revisit once restrictions are lifted.

Because life hadn’t been interesting enough this year, in July, Jenny fell and broke her right ankle.  After fun with an ortho boot, knee scooter, wheelchair, walker, and cane, Jenny is currently in a lace ankle brace.  Her bone was not healing after three and a half months, so we’re doing an ultrasound bone stimulation treatment every night to promote bone growth.  If this doesn’t work, Jenny is facing surgery, complete with a rod and supper filler!  Even with her limitations, Jenny found the energy to dance with Crystal, which scared both me AND Crystal!  Jenny continues to enjoy cross stitching as an outlet and produced an awesome Christmas showpiece this year that I’m sure will become a cherished heirloom to others for years to come!

I bought something this year that I thought I would never ever buy; a gun.  Actually two; a 9 mm handgun and a 12 gauge shotgun.  The last gun I owned was a 20 gauge shotgun that I traded with my oldest brother for a dinette set right before Jenny and I got married. (Ooh, a shotgun wedding!)  Later, I’m going for my conceal/carry license so that I can officially have the handgun with me when needed and that may come sooner than I think; coyotes are getting worse around here too.

Jenny and I took a very relaxing vacation in October to the Shenandoah Valley in Virginia, around Harrisonburg.  It was the perfect time of the year to enjoy the magnificent fall colors on the Skyline Drive as well as the Amish area around Dayton, Va.  We even got a great surprise on that Sunday when Jenny’s sister and husband stopped by to visit on their way home!  But in hindsight, we both agreed that we have areas just as beautiful around our neck of the woods and there isn’t a toll involved to see them…

Growing up!

Crystal will be six in January and is now in Kindergarten and officially a Hudson Hornet like her mama!  Until recently, she went to school four days a week and we watched her on Wednesdays, where I did the remote lessons with her among other “adventures”!  For now, she is going all five days, but I’m not holding my breath that that will soon change again.  Crystal is thriving in school and making friends, even though masks are mandatory and there are several distancing restrictions in place which makes bonding a little more challenging.  We have so enjoyed her being with us and as the COVID plans continue to change and morph, there’s a chance she’ll be back with us once again.  I think Crystal really enjoyed learning to bake with Gum Gum and doing some “exploring” with Pops!  Alison and Justin celebrated one full decade of wedded bliss in June!  Oh, and did I happen to mention that Alison was selected as Teacher of the Year for Hudson Elementary after teaching there less than a year?!  Way to go “neighbors”!

As I close this letter, I could go on and on and on about all the horrible events that have taken place here in 2020; for it has seemed like a very long Romco commercial, “But wait, there’s more!”  But instead, I’ll tell you what I’ve missed…the little things.  I’ve missed the spontaneity of going to a movie or grabbing a bite to eat without social distance restrictions.  I’ve missed not being in our church sanctuary, not receiving and/or giving a spontaneous hug when needed, a handshake, of singing in the choir.  I’ve even missed seeing mouths and noses, smiles and frowns, parts of the face that complete a person’s persona but have for now, been masked over.  We even had to cancel our Disney trip with Alison and Crystal that had been planned for early December. 

It matters not whether you think this global pandemic was used to effectively control the masses, a live test on humanity like we’ve never seen before, or just an unfortunate set of circumstances that have gotten us all to this point, we all need to learn from this experience.  We need to appreciate life, family, friends, neighbors, teachers, coworkers, rowdy kids, strangers (and even toilet paper) more, to stop taking every moment that God has freely given us for granted.  Freedom has always had a price attached to it and we’ll all see in the coming years how much we’ve sold our souls to the devil, so to speak, to feel “safe and secure” with a transitioning government IF we have a transitioning government; the jury’s still out, so to speak.  Either way, may God have mercy on our souls; this truly is a troubling time in which we live.

But there’s always hope, which is exactly why we celebrate this season.  For HOPE was born on Christmas Day, in the form of a tiny little baby who became our King of Kings and Lord of Lords; we call Him Jesus!

Love to you and yours this Christmas from Steve, Jenny and Izzy the dog!